Moving in together

Moving in together pros cons list - Overview of the advantages and disadvantages

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You're usually always together anyway. Then an apartment is practical

60Votes
You no longer have a place where you can really retreat or escape in the event of an argument

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You save yourself an apartment and a lot of money

51Votes
You bind yourself even more

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You wake up next to each other every day

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Can sometimes backfire

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Once you've found the right person, moving in together is a logical step

38Votes
Giving up your own freedom

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A big step towards a shared future

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The decision to share a home should be carefully considered

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Joint household management

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Different friends - problems when visiting

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Mutual help

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After moving in together, the partner lets himself go more

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Saving money

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Some planning (budget, shopping lists, etc.) is necessary

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can strengthen the relationship

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Friends and family members could now live a little further away. You would have to use certain means of transportation (time & money) for a visit.

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Undisturbed sex

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The partner is restrictive and interferes in everything

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Commuting and thus the travel costs to the partner are eliminated (if previously long-distance relationship)

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The anticipation of the next meeting is gone

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Becoming responsible and standing on your own two feet

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People are no longer actively dating and hardly ever go on dates anymore

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be more helpful and sociable

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Less privacy

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Shared household

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No sole freedom of design in home furnishings

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More togetherness

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You almost always have to find a compromise

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Never fall asleep alone again ❣️

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