Forced marriage
Forced marriage pros and cons, advantages and disadvantages in overview. Pros and Cons List
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no stress
Suppression
have sex
Everyone should have the right to say NO to a forced marriage
economic security for the woman, which nowadays happens mainly in rural areas.
if the marriage is not happy, the children suffer
Financial security
Marriage may only be entered into if the future spouses freely and unreservedly agree. (Art. 16 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights).
Preservation of citizenship
Family honor and wealth should not take precedence over personal well-being
...People are still young and inexperienced and may look for the wrong partner
Man or woman may already be in love and in a relationship. This one must then end
You are not alone.
Higher education, especially for women, almost impossible because of domestic duties.
you can learn to love your partner
if you are homosexual you will be married against your inclination
Self-found marriages have as high a divorce rate as arranged marriages
Forced marriage is often among relatives, so increased risk for genetic defects in offspring
...In many cultures it is tradition. So a forced marriage secures the respective tradition.
You can usually only get out of it again if you become a refugee
Securing the residence status
mostly very young people are forcibly married, who still have too little experience for marriage
Parents could make a good decision because they know their children well.
Girls/women will not be happy and may be oppressed. Sexual diseases
Unsightly men have no chance on the open marriage market. Arranged marriage opens up the possibility of marriage for these men as well.
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...It is essential in some societies to be accepted by the society.
they are exploited
You will learn to love each other
You do not love this person you are marrying
If women can choose the partner self-determined, this leads to a single society, which is not sustainable. Arranged marriage=children=future!
Dead end
Women find the contact efforts of men they do not like very unpleasant. Men's efforts to contact them are omitted in arranged marriages. Marriage.
woman is considered the property of the man
...The fact that women are allowed to choose their own partner leads to the fact that 90% of women are only interested in soft adonises=singularization of men.
es kommt zum Sozialinzest, weil die Schichten unter sich bleiben
Learning to love is a good challenge to grow from.
The majority of women are not happy with this, but must not say, otherwise the family will kick them out, at a young age
Can lead to true love
When a separation does happen the family excludes the person
Young girls without parents can be led to a secure future through a forced marriage from the Weisenheim
Characters may not match as well as not all needs of a man or woman are met
...Guarantee woman for every man, whether he is beautiful or ugly; the pick-up women perceive as perverted by ugly men is eliminated.
no sex
Same traditions, religions and interests
Simply complete bullshit
They may still go their own way after marriage.
humanity will not die out just because there are no more forced marriages
Most often, the self-decided marriage has not succeeded. Nowadays everyone separates
Men cheat in later course of marriage because love cannot be worked out in an arranged marriage. The women suffer and divorce is impossible
...The decision is taken away. The burden of finding someone disappears.
no women's own self-determination. Feminists have fought long enough for women's rights not to demand this "nor" in the 21st century.
Without the right of self-determination, women/girls can be married off by parents or authorities after reasonable considerations.
sexual harassment/ unwanted come-ons are not the result of lack of forced marriages
Women cannot obtain a higher education because they have direct domestic responsibilities to fulfill. The man is not under pressure.
Fear
The spouse has no stress in the partnersuche.
No sense
...Women can be suppressed more easily again
getting a spouse is not a person's birthright
illegitimate, fatherless children whose financial well-being must be taken care of by the state
Neither of them is happy with such a relationship
Culture & tradition are relative every culture follows its own laws which can be evaluated independently.
They may still go their own way after marriage.
Even ugly men get a wife.
It is not voluntary
...people need true love even if they hide it, it makes us the person we are and if we can't do that we break down
Very outdated custom, not up to date (decide for yourself)
opposes many personal rights and scratches the self-esteem when you are not loved all your life!
Every person should have the opportunity to determine his own life, which is not possible in a forced marriage.
...Forced marriage is not right. Women should be able to decide for themselves with whom they want to marry and with whom not.
it is an important decision for life. you spend your whole life together, have children who come from the other, the other uses your money....
Modern form of slavery
Jeder sollte selbst entscheiden wen ersie liebt.
...Many of the girls are also minors.
Women no longer have any rights and serve only as housewives and mothers. If they are gay, they are cast out.
Unsightly men have no chance on the open marriage market. Arranged marriage opens up the possibility of marriage for these men as well.
His idea of his own life is completely overturned. You no longer live your life as you would like to.
...If you are already in love with another person, you must leave them for the person you are compelled to marry.
The marriage of the state can affect you so much emotionally that you want to die
Sowohl seelische als auch körperliche Verletzungen, durch häusliche Gewalt und Vergewaltigungen= verletzte Menschenrechte
There are universally valid moral concepts that are worthy of protection and stand above tradition (e.g. written down in the human rights, e.g. freedom).
...Mann findet nicht die wahre liebe und verliert wichtige Erlebnisse
Die kinder werden es merken das die Eltern sich nicht lieben und das kann zu psychische führen.
One should have his own decision. Without coercion
One should have his own decision. Without coercion
...constant fear of physical violence and unwanted pregnancies
The woman is treated as a commodity or a price
Marriage, where you do not love each other.... and confirmed at the altar that you love, respect, honor and live together until death do you part.
Actual purpose of marriage: common life of two people who love each other so much that they want to spend their whole life together.
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